Rider profile: roadie / racer-cyclist.
- Speed is first. Go A-to-B faster, get off the road sooner.
- Accept that safety is always third. You've already signed the death-warrant, so-to-speak.
- Think exactly like a motorist / car-driver: Anyone faster than you is a maniac, anyone slower than you is an idiot.
- Optimization: The lighter the bicycle (and yourself) the higher average speed you get.
- Helmet is a must at these speeds, but lights shouldn't be too heavy unless you're specifically doing night-riding.
- Wear the lightest, slickest clothing (lycra) to eke out that last bit of speed. (And maybe a few other minor optimizations too specialized or crazy to put here)
- Stop-signs are optional: remember, speed is first. You have your reaction-time to take care of the rest.
- Main roads are no problem for you. In fact it's more favorable than the side-roads full of stop-signs, or mixed-pathways full of pedestrians, or bike lanes full of amateur slowpokes.
- You don't see the point of bike lanes or mixed pathways (with all the slower foot/cycle traffic), and avoid them if at all possible.
- You need to keep training, so you also do extra training rides on the side, preferably on closed roads but you can instead treat a random stretch of road as a circuit/training track.
- You keep up with the latest news on new bicycle tech. Must keep the edge.
Congrats, you stopped caring about what other people think, and only focus on being your best self.
All is well (until it isn't...)
Although, you realize you can't keep doing this forever unless you stay close to your peak form (around age 25-30). You also realize cycling has become elitist--there's no way your grandparents, parents, young siblings, kids, etc. can do what you do, unless of course they put in an effort much greater than getting a driver's license (the ease of earning a driver's license speaks volumes about the quality of drivers I guess). Eventually you'll slow down like a mortal. But live in the moment, I guess.
Quit the speed arms-race. You're not cycling to have the same car-brain mentality or speeds or stress; you're cycling to let the road-ragers speed on by ahead of you while you continue having a good time in a timely commute, at your own pace.