Rider profile: roadie / racer-cyclist.

Congrats, you stopped caring about what other people think, and only focus on being your best self.
All is well (until it isn't...)

Although, you realize you can't keep doing this forever unless you stay close to your peak form (around age 25-30). You also realize cycling has become elitist--there's no way your grandparents, parents, young siblings, kids, etc. can do what you do, unless of course they put in an effort much greater than getting a driver's license (the ease of earning a driver's license speaks volumes about the quality of drivers I guess). Eventually you'll slow down like a mortal. But live in the moment, I guess.

Quit the speed arms-race. You're not cycling to have the same car-brain mentality or speeds or stress; you're cycling to let the road-ragers speed on by ahead of you while you continue having a good time in a timely commute, at your own pace.